How deep is your love?

ok this is faddy. I guess in all my relationships i make such plans, cuz I guess deep inside I want each and everyone of my relationship to be THE one, you know wak amin. can’t help it that i often have such thoughts in my head. hahahha…

As for promises, I believe I don’t make empty promises, cuz yeah in all my relationships, the guy yang break them wakakakaka. kesian aku.

then fit, you ever thought of tt not? lol

Neh, i still gotta long way to go!
Plus, it’s hard to find someone interesting.
Trust me, the three months i spent with you-know-who was boring and was a big ass mistake!
And now, the only things i love are my camera, music and family.
Suprisingly, i’m happy! Haha…

I used to be realistic and not think about these things, because you’re only putting in so much hope for it to go to waste one day. I’m negative like that.

We haven’t thought of baby names, but we HAVE discussed on things like how will the baby be dressed - ‘branded and cute’ or ‘as long as they;re clothed’ kinda thing. But it’s never a WE thing..it’s just a safe, generic question. We use the terms “you” instead of “us”. We’re pretty careful I guess.

Oh and that we should never send boys to dance/music schools. It’s kinda risky. Haha.

you are asking the right person man. XD

it’s so tough being in a teenaged relationship, and that is the absolute truth. i won’t say that teenagers should get married, but i feel that financial stability is extremely important. if you aren’t going to have financial stability, forget about even talking about marriage.

so IMHO, if you are only going to have financial stability in like 10 years, and you ask your babe to wait for you 10 years, please be realistic. (i’m not talking about YOU, i’m talking about the ‘you’ in general okay ah?)

similarly, if you wanna play around and yet have a girl/boy attached to you, be realistic. these two situations are mutually exclusive, the relationship won’t last.

that’s my take lah. but i’m glad you asked that question. it makes my choice so much more justified XDDD

but look on the bright side, you have someone you can think off when your in tekong resort. An added advantage. Pros and Cons man… Sometimes, the girl may not tahan any longer and pull the plug on you. then you’ll realize she’s with someone else after your NS.

Risks everwhere. but whoever is reading this. cherish the love that you have chosen as ur partner. dont regret it.

i just realised my latest blog topic is ALMOST the same as urs. HEHE (:

yea man. both u and shak entries the same! hahas.

ehh, i dont play around but i do oogle at cuties. *giggle and i never make any empty promises but i always taken in by it sehhh. sobsob. the world is cruel, cruuueell i tell you~ hehes.

but seriously, that question of whether “m i sure i wud still be attracted with him a few yrs later” wouldnt even come up if u believe that love is the act of faith. ko paham? aku tak paham! hahaahah.

OH my.. yeah that whole down the track will it last kinda thing.. to be honest.. i really dont think there is an answer for that. It all depends on the individual, its up to you to make it happen and keep it going. Nothing in life comes easy, so why should this be any easier..

A lot of people say, when you know, you will just know that he/she is the one.. and it will last two billion years down the track. But for me, its taking it day by day. Why try “fix” later, when the here and now isnt stable yet. And if she can’t wait for you, it goes to show that she won’t be any different later. Nanti kasi muka, naik kepala pulaaaaaaak.. haahaa

And on the topic of the whole NS thing.. 2 years is not a longtime.. and if a girl ever does do that to you, yet she comes back when ure NS is over, then you know she wasnt the right one in the first plce. If she did it the first time.. whats to stop her a second time right?

You’re thinking too much

haha, ur blog topic is bringing up a lot of ruckus dude. but anyhoos, i have not put my two cents worth of thought.

its great to see couples planning and picturing their future together. seriously, im happy for them. but yet at the same time, im skeptical as to whether they will really last. i am NOT saying that i want them to break up or they will not last, but it’s just, you see, there are some things in life we cannot foresee and predict. things may happen within a blink of an eye. feelings change. love, now, brings hurt instead of joy.

and at that moment, you’d come to realization, why has things changed? and as i have mentioned in my blog, it takes two to clap. both parties have got to put in effort to make it work.(cheh cheh, macam talking from experience. act, yes la)

ANWS, to all the couples out there: stay happy, faithful & most important of all, love your partners for who they are (:

ciao ah fit!

Not really leh. I have no future?

i know its june 2008 now and this entry was posted in nov 2007 but i just bumped into your blog and its refreshing reading something local AND malay-ish. i dont really get enough of that in melb.

anyways, my mama always reminds me that “jodoh di tangan tuhan”.

mmmm.. i think if theyre meant to be, theyll get through all obstacles together. hmmm whats waiting for a guy for 2 years of ns, when i’m far away finishing my education while he’s currently finishing his ns, after which he still needs to study, get a job and earn a decent salary. but good things in life are worth waiting for. but i reckon that ill be earning more than him by the time he finish studying.. wahahaha.. terbalik pula..

salam.